I learn a lot from what other people go through along side my own personal experiences. Sometimes looking at other people's situations can teach you way more than your own because it's easier to see it from a different perspective when it's not you in the middle of it all. The main thing I've noticed is that you can't change how you feel about certain things, particularly people. No matter how much outsiders tell you it will be okay and tell you that you can do 'so' much better - it's totally different when it's actually you in the centre of the mess. Some of you may be thinking this is obvious and in a way it is because we have all had relationships troubles; but it becomes magnified when you look at it in a disconnected way. Another thing which I've seen is that you can't second guess what people are thinking constantly. It just doesn't work. The chances are - you'll never get it exactly right when second guessing somebody... You also have to accept that everything comes to an end eventually. Harsh? It could be seen that way - but that's the reality of it. Having said that I truly believe that a positive view can get you a long way. You just have to be willing to accept things don't last forever. I believe if something's meant to be, it will be - but I don't think there always has to be a reason behind it. Disconnecting yourself from the situation can sometimes help, give it ago sometime? (:
Laura.
Song: Stop and Stare by OneRepublic
